Archive for February 19th, 2006

When the going gets tough, the tender quit!

Ah, my dear p2g sisters………….you haven’t heard from me because even Chirpy couldn’t get a rise out of me this week.  I reread my very first entry of the Lazy Daisy Log which said…..
“Hi, everybody…..I’m lazy daisy and it pretty much describes my attempts at dieting and weight control. I do pretty well at the beginning, then get lazy or slack and eventually start rationalizing, “I’ve already blown it for today, so might as well wait till Monday to start back up again.”

Unfortunately, Monday never comes. So I’ve been stuck in this time warp for a long time.”

Insanity is doing the same thing the same way and expecting a different outcome.  History is in the process of repeating itself and I’m finding it very hard to “press on” and “stay the course!”

I haven’t lost any weight in the last two weeks and now I’ve depressed myself into being careless, not making good choices and giving up is the next sequence.  “To give in and give up” is what I traditionally do…………I haven’t totally lost heart yet but I truly need to hear from you.
In one sense I’m very much Peter Pan asking the children to clap their hands if they believe in fairies……I need to know you are out there and that you believe I can get through this “detour”.

Unless you’re the head sled dog…..the scenery never changes!  Keep clapping so I can head toward the sound.

Checking In

Just checking in to say hello, and yes, Leanne, I do want to be kept on here even though I’m not the most active member.

I have been sick this weekend. It’s hard to feel like crap.

Which makes me think of how easy it is to get off track from our progress when something comes along like a cold or a crisis.

What’s the best way to keep on track when something knocks you off? Just wondering

I have been slowly losing weight, much more slowly than many of you. But you all inspire me. I’m at about 7 pounds now. Maybe I should join Weight Watchers again.

Hope you all are well.

Hello!

Hi, Everyone! I’m a friend of Elle’s and have followed her to this site. I am impressed with all the great support, inspiration, and links to additional information on good health. I’m looking forward to getting to know all of you and work together with you on some healthy goals.

I am 37, married with two young daughters, to whom I hope to be a good role model. I was one of those lucky girls who never really had to worry about what I ate because I just didn’t gained weight – until my mid 20′s. At that time, I wasn’t too concerned (hello, Denial!) because it wasn’t THAT much of a weight gain. Fast forward to my mid-30′s and I still hadn’t really learned how to make healthy choices with eating and exercise. This time, the weight was too much to ignore. (Can you say, “metabolism s-l-o-w-d-o-w-n?) So, I joined WW and lost about 30 pounds… never got to my ultimate goal (would have just been 5 more pounds) but I was so happy to be healthy again.

It’s been three years since I lost that weight. Over the last year or so, I’ve been seeing the number slowly get higher on the scale. To my horror, I’ve gained ten pounds since Halloween! Ack!

After much putzing around and saying, “well, I’ll get to losing weight soon” I think I’ve finally reached the motivation point. I’ve now got a neighbor with whom I will work out each morning after we put the kids on the school bus, I’ve started eating better and journaling what I’ve been eating for the past two weeks, and now I’m part of this wonderful online community.

 My weigh-in is tomorrow and I’m crossing my fingers. I know that the scale isn’t the only determining factor in getting toward a healthier lifestyle, but I admit that I really do like that positive feedback.

 Looking forward to a nice, healthy adventure wtih you!

Attn: P2G Members

I’ve just upgraded P2G’s main site to WordPress 2.0.1. You may see some differences in writing your entries, you might not. Regardless, while I was cleaning-house this afternoon I decided to have a look at reducing the size of the site by eliminating some unused features and members who have not been active.

Feedback time, please!

I confess.

I didn’t go to Weight Watchers yesterday morning.

There were several factors involved. One I hadn’t seen the scale moved since the beginning of the week and was afraid to go without being sure I would show a loss. Bad reason I know.

Two, I was tired and wanted to sleep in. Another bad reason.

Three, we had freezing rain and snow the night before and the roads weren’t terribly clear and I didn’t want to deal with the risk of the crazies on the road that early in the morning before the roads had a chance to clear. This is the only justifiable reason I had. So I’m saying it’s my main reason of course.

This morning when I woke up the scale moved an additional four lbs DOWN from yesterday morning so I’m rather thrilled.

Guess I was stupid for not going yesterday afterall… :shame:

Weebols Wobble

But they don’t fall down!

I’m still around, busy as all get out, and I’ve been trying to bloghop and comment this morning. I’m totally out of the loop!

I have 2 new members to set up, and I will do that today.

I have no progress to report, but I haven’t fallen off the wagon – either. Big Red just left the building, so I’m hoping for something to report by the end of this week!

Recommended Reading: Body For Life
(Took me 3 hours to read cover to cover, and really is a great motivator! One of those “a-ha!” books, a must read!)

I’ll be catching up with everyone today!

From the Mouths of Babes

I read another informative article on SparkPeople this morning, about what children can teach us about weight loss. I commented on it in my diet blog and thought I’d share it here, too. It reminded me of how active — and how slim — I used to be as a child, and of how my own two girls were always moving, before the days of Playstations, Game Cubs and X-Boxes.

Eat less; move more. My doctor’s simple equation for weight loss.

So I read through this article to see how I stacked up against their suggestions.

1. Everything can be a game. Why slog through the same workout routines in boredom, when you can add a little fun? Make up rules, shoot for personal records, regain your competitive spirit.

2. Don’t walk when you can run. Every day is full of opportunities to increase your fitness. This rule is closely related to “don’t drive when you can walk.”

How about “don’t walk when you can dance”? I wear my little MP3 player around the apartment a lot of the time, and dance my way from chore to chore. And only the cat can hear me if I sing off key! Not only does it keep me moving, but Gwen Stefani can make mundane chores like dishes a lot more enjoyable. Before you know it, you’re finished.

3. If you don’t like it, don’t eat it. Once you hit your goal weight, chances are your eating habits won’t stick around long if you hated what you were eating. Healthy eating involves balance and moderation.

This one really doesn’t apply too much to me because there are very few foods I don’t like, unfortunately. One could turn that around, however, and make it “if it doesn’t like you, don’t eat it”. In other words, if eating a particular food is sure to sabotage your new eating habits, don’t eat it!

4. Laughter feels good. Kids seem to inherently know that laughter can ease blood pressure, help your brain function, give you energy, and help you reach your goals. Smiling and enjoying yourself can be serious help.

Oh boy, this is one I really need to work on. With the worries of everyday life — meeting monthly budgets, paying bills, elderly parents — it’s hard to find a lot to laugh about most days. I need to get out more … sounds corny, but the get-togethers with girlfriends, going to a movie, simple things like that can make all the difference. But I’m a born worrier, so I really do have to work on this one.

5. Playtime is important. We get so caught up in work, chores and a host of “have-to’s” that we forget to take time for ourselves. Not only does relaxing and regrouping make life worthwhile, it has real health benefits. Most of all, it will help you stay consistent and motivated.

See #4.

6. The world should be full of colorespecially on your dinner plate! Splash it with as many colors as possible, paint it like a rainbow with food. It’s more fun to look at and chances are you’ll be eating a healthy, balanced meal.

Colorful foods are reported to be the healthiest foods. The reds of tomatoes, peppers, radishes, apples; the greens of leafy vegetables, celery, cucumbers, broccoli, peas, beans; yellow peppers, beans, bananas; purple grapes, eggplant, onion, cabbage; oranges, carrots, sweet potatoes, squash, etc. The more colorful, the better!

7. It’s always more fun with friends around. Children tend to gravitate toward other children. It gives them spirit and makes them want to play all day. Working out with other people is almost like having your own little playgroup.

Again, see #4.

8. Adventures are found outside, not inside. Every kid knows that the good stuff is in the great outdoors—fresh air, wide open spaces, limitless possibilities. You can’t find those things cooped up in a tiny, stale gym. Open the door and start a new adventure every day.

Open the door and start a new adventure every day … yes! I definitely need to get outside more, go for more walks, breathe in that crisp, February air.

9. It’s important to use your imagination. You can be Captain Fantastic or Stupendous Woman any time you want. Give yourself permission to believe in your own super powers and let your mind take you wherever it wants to go.

Believing in yourself is half the battle when it comes to weight loss, I think. And you need to apply your imagination to exercise routines and “menus” so that you keep things interesting. Nothing sabotages my efforts like boredom.

10. Anything is possible. No fear, no self-doubts, no negative self talk, no self-criticism, no worries, no destructive anxieties or thoughts of failure. To a child, he/she can do anything. And do you know what? They’re right.

I think I’ve conquered this one! I really do believe that I will lose all this excess poundage this time. I haven’t felt defeated since I started. You really do have to believe in yourself and your resolve.

Finally … You have your whole life ahead of you. Here’s your chance to do it right.

This one speaks for itself. I’m taking this opportunity to hang out with the great gals here at P2G and rely on their support and encouragement. I want to reach and maintain a healthy weight now because I do have my whole life ahead of me, and I want it to be a healthy and happy one.

Here’s to doing it right!